It is conditioned to love
Don’t say you love a person unconditionally, love is always conditional.
You can want with nothing, but you want him to love you, is not this a condition?
Parents love children, conditioned too, the condition is the children that they must be him, if is others’ children, they will not love them, can not use the life to protect them.
The girl says: “I really love her unconditionally, I do not even need him to love me. ” Yes, even if he does not love her, she would like to wait at his side all one’s life, she loves his talent. If he have talent, she can so without hesitation love he also? No. Her love is conditional.
The woman can love the men of no use, he has no talent, good for nothing. The woman says: “Is this still not unconditional? ” But she wants him to promise with her forever, want him to promise to correct the shortcoming. Want a man to pay promising is not this what a condition have?
The man says: “I love her. ” If not she does not look ugly, if she is not so clever, do not have personality which he likes, will he still love her? She must accord with terms of him can the love. speech
We each person are loved having conditions, love others conditionally too. Needn’t be downhearted. Since know, have unconditional love in the world, you should make great efforts, make oneself satisfy the requirements, go the love even more, should study and forget some conditions love a person at the same time.